As a stranger, I'm visiting a San Diego household containing a picture perfect family. They all have tan skin and button noses. This is the father's second marriage, but he's still close with his ex who makes an appearance in a family video they show me. They are sitting in front of a Volvo and the kids are moving in and out of the picture. The ex is in the background smiling. The grandmother shows me her handmade quilts and freshly picked radishes from the garden out back. The house feels suburban, but the stuff inside is more authentic. I want to find something wrong with the family, but have a difficult time doing so.